My name is Tammy Higdon Stebbins, and I am an author, speech-language pathologist, and lifelong advocate for the power of words. After growing up in extreme poverty and violence, I learned early that words could wound—but I also discovered they could heal, restore, and set people free.
My memoir, The Weight of Fear: One Woman’s Journey from Fear to Freedom to Forgiveness, chronicles my journey from a childhood shaped by trauma to a life grounded in faith, resilience, and grace. With honesty and compassion, I invite readers into the hardest chapters of my story in order to offer hope to those still finding their way.
As a speech-language pathologist, I have spent decades walking alongside children and adults who struggled to find their words—or had lost them altogether. I have witnessed firsthand how fragile language can be, how devastating it is when someone cannot express what lives inside them, and how much courage it takes to recover a voice. Those years deepened my conviction that words are sacred—that they can gather or divide, strengthen or shatter, bless or break.
Because I have worked with people who fought to speak a single sound, I do not take words lightly. I write with reverence for language and with urgency for truth, encouraging others to get their stories out of their heads and onto paper—no matter how painful or unfinished they may feel. I believe healing often begins when we dare to say what has long been silent.
I live in Kentucky with my family and continue to write stories rooted in faith, forgiveness, and the enduring value of every voice.
I write from lived trauma, deep faith, and real healing, never distant theory.
My stories hold suffering and hope together, always pointing gently toward Christ.
I favor a humble, quiet space where hearts can breathe, feel, and heal.